In memory of our mother Lucy Gilmer, who departed this life March 11, 1866 aged 44 years. With us her name shall live through long succeeding years; Embalmed with all our hearts can give our praise and our tears. Wife of Robert Archibald Gilmer, In memory of our mother Lucy Gilmer, who departed this life March 11, 1866 aged 44 years. With us her name shall live through long succeeding years; Embalmed with all our hearts can give our praise and our tears.